Orgasms can be mysterious, mind-blowing, lengthy,elusive or—as we just learned—hands-free.
From Em & Lo comes the tale of a college freshman who attends a "How
To Have A Genderless Orgasm" workshop in lieu of his art history class.
Led by Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, the students go through breathing, muscle-contracting and chakra-balancing exercises to reach climax.
"When the instructor gives the command, we’re to breathe 30 quick breaths in unison — it’s an individual exercise, yet we’re working as a group to achieve "orgasm." Heavy breathing, chests heaving, students moaning. Even the normally taciturn ones are sighing audibly. A tingling sensation starts in my lower belly and seems to travel up into my head (like, the head head, where my brain is). The music becomes a loud and powerful tribal chant. People begin to curl over into the fetal position. Climax is achieved!"
Orgasm without sex or masturbation? The mind is a powerful beast,
indeed. As the blogger describes, the sensation wasn't exactly like the
orgasms he's experienced before: "If this is an orgasm, it’s the
strangest one I have ever had. (I’m not entirely convinced)." But, the
post-climax serenity he experiences is unlike anything he's ever felt.
True to Tantra, the goal of the "genderless orgasm" (for men) is not
ejaculation but harnessing and getting pleasure from the
body-connecting-with-Earth energy.
Extending or enhancing orgasm seems to be on many a short list; and
using the power of the mind and breathing exercises, a G-spot
shot or—gulp—Orajel and two condoms, are just some of the ways people
are doing it.
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