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Wednesday, 5 December 2012

Should I Tell My Husband He Is Not The Father Of Our Only Son?


I got pregnant for a guy last year December. He started avoiding me when I told him my condition so I decided to break up with him and keep my baby. A month later in January, i hooked up with another guy whom I loved with all my heart. I told him my situation and that I was expecting another guy's baby. 

He asked me to abort and then get back to him. I could not bring myself to kill my unborn baby, so I lied to him that I had aborted.

Surprisingly, he proposed marriage to me, brought his people to my people and after all that, we moved in together. I've been trying to gain courage to tell him the truth but never got it. When the pregnancy started showing, he assumed it was his baby. I still feared telling him the truth as it would break his heart. 

I did not want to lose him. I delivered a baby boy in August and he gave him his father's name. He also organized his baptism and the baby was baptized. He never even once asked about the dates.

But recently I learnt he got word that the other guy was telling people that the baby is his and that he was waiting for him to grow up so he could claim him.

Now my husband is asking me strange questions about "his" son. 

Can I tell him the truth and still have his trust? Please I don't want to loose my young marriage.

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